Redefining the term: Rape

       Do you know that the dictionary is no more a trustworthy source for definitions!  One word that I would like to lay your attention on is rape. Shocked! Yes, Rape is the word that is not defined correctly in the dictionary. Not only dictionaries have wrongly mentioned but also the legislation defines it all wrong. And because of that wrong definition unnecessarily the innocent people get punished. Poor victims! They are unreasonably caught and put behind bars. They are not to be blamed, they should be freed immediately. This mistake happened in the first place because of the wrong definition provided by, I don’t know whom…Let us look at the correct definition, the correct definition will set everything to its right course, at least the innocent people will not punished irrationally. But before stating the revised meaning, let us look at the traditional definition. As per dictionary:

“It is a crime of forcing another person to submit to the sex acts.”

New Definition of Rape:

It’s an activity that a girl/ woman forces on herself by the act of the following;

• ·         Wearing the clothes of her choice.
• ·         Going out for night parties to enjoy herself.
• ·         Sitting and peacefully/ happily enjoying the conversation with her boyfriend.
• ·         Trying to raise her voice against a gangster.
• ·         Having a wish to climb the corporate ladder.
• ·         Travelling independently.
• ·         And last but not least, sometimes just by sitting at home doing nothing.

So as per the new definition, it is not a crime, it’s an activity that women find amusing, it may be forceful but the rapist is forced to act accordingly.

If we look at the new definition closely we would know that it’s actually not the rapist who is at fault. He is just an innocent person who is being trapped by the so called innocent women, and Just because rape causes physical and mental torture to the woman doesn't mean that the rapist is to be blamed, as said before it’s a bloody trap… This definition will change a lot other things as well. If you would study, you would know that rapist after committing the crime (I should not even call it a crime) feels a sense of power, he feels that he is powerful and takes pride in it, but this revised definition is robing him of that feeling because it’s the woman who is causing it, if she wants she can avoid it, hence she is more powerful than the rapist himself.

I am sure a lot of people will agree with me and especially the government as it wants to empower the woman. It is time that we change the definition and make it official. This way at least the innocent people will be spared! The legislation of India will also be spared as it would be saved of all the rape cases. A lot of time then, can be focused on other pending cases.

And if anyone needs to be punished it’s the rape victim, I mean the women (I clarified it because as per the new definition, the rape victim is the rapist himself).

Misunderstood Roles

   As the time stands witness men have always misunderstood their roles. The male gender somehow has this misconception that the female gender has to be protected by them. From the time known, this myth has caused havoc in the women’s life, when the fact is that the women are not to be protected by them but from them. It is as if they are playing a farce to inflate their ego and in the process ruining the women’s life. And now they have got so involved in the role that they take the women to be their private property that too to an extent that they don’t even consider them to be a living being at times. At the cost of protecting the women they destroy them to the core. The male gender is so serious in protecting the opposite gender that they seem to have forgotten the real meaning of being ‘The Man,’ or I would go to an extent of saying that they have misinterpreted the meaning of the term ’protection.’ They protect women as Lord Rama protected Sita by sending her on exile while she was pregnant or like the pandavas put Draupadi on stake. I am sure things will be much simpler if only they clear the mist and see the reality.

Sadness and bitterness encompass me when I think of fallacies of men against women. Sadness on the part of female gender and bitterness on the part of male gender as nobody seems to be a man enough. By forcing themselves on women in any context, they feel that they fulfilled their purpose of being born. Shameless creatures they have become. My heart cries on the current situation of the woman. I am sure God had a very different idea when he created woman. I am sure he did not wish such condition of woman. I detest God for making men so thoughtless and inconsiderate of women’s feelings. Every news about women being insulted fills my heart with revenge.

There is but one solution that I can think of, and I am sure that by this solution things are sure to set themselves right, and even God will agree with me on this, if he is familiar of the status of woman in the current time. All females should get extinct immediately as the situation is hopeless now…